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    I am a wife, mom of 2 beautiful children and daughter of my Heavenly Father. God has taken me through some amazing journeys. With each challenge I have learned more about His amazing Love and Grace. Take some time out of your busy, hectic day and join me as we sit in the Calm of God's Presence.

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For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat,

I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink,

I was a stranger and you invited me in,

I needed clothes and you clothed me,

I was sick and you looked after me,

I was in prison and you came to visit me.

Matthew 25:35-36


Just incase you’ve missed my last 2 posts we have been talking about what it looks like to tend the pasture God has given us.

We first talked about what it actually means when God gives us a pasture and what that entails. Then we spent some time discussing what it looks like to serve right where our two feet are planted, where we are on a daily basis.

You can catch up on these two posts…

Tending my PASTURE

What it looks like to serve in my PASTURE

Today we are going to talk about the pasture outside our four walls.

Our two feet walk us through our homes daily which means our top priority is in our home but there comes a time when we must step outside our home. At that point our mission field/pasture becomes those around us.


On a daily basis what does that look like for you? Who do you come in contact with at work, school, or running errands and how can you minister, encourage or help them?

For me, my daily interactions are filled with moments in carline/carpool, running errands and interacting with friends. The problem I run into is often being so focused on the end point of drop off or checking something off my to-do list that I forget to take the time to connect and help those around me. Do you struggle with that too? These are the questions I ask myself which help remind me to look up and help those around me.

  • Moments in carline/carpool
    • What can I do to encourage the hearts of the kids in my car before they begin their day and after a long day at school?
    • How can I speak words of encouragement/lift up the teacher directing carline?


  • Running errands
    • How can I help the mom struggling with a child while grocery shopping?
    • Is there some way I can “pay it forward” while running errands?


  • Friends
    • How can I help lighten the load of a friend who is a single mom?
    • Do I have a friend who could use an extra note of encouragement and prayer?



There are some areas where God asks us to minister and serve but just not on a daily basis. Those areas may include the gym, church, volunteering, or mentoring. Think about it for a few minutes, where do you go/what do you do on a weekly basis where God could use you to minister and serve?

For me, I serve weekly at my church and monthly through personal mentoring.

When it comes to the pasture God has placed us in we can ask ourselves these types of questions. While I’ve listed them under my areas you can use them for your own.

  • Church
    • Small group
      • Who do I need to reach out to that hasn’t been in a while?
      • Is someone struggling through difficulties that may need a little extra TLC?
      • What can I do mid-week to help support the study from Sunday?
    • Women’ s Ministry/Bible Study
      • How can I be a source of welcome and encouragement?
      • How can I help them grow deeper in their walk with Christ?


  • Personal Mentoring
    • Is there a friend I need to come alongside as she is walking a path I have previously travelled?
    • How can I help someone learn how to dig deeper into God’s Word?

Today we’ve talked about what it looks like to serve/tend the PASTURE God has given us outside our four walls. Now it’s time for you to put this into action. What is your pasture outside your four walls? Where does he want you to minister on a daily or weekly basis and what does that look like? Next week we will talk about how we tend the PASTURE God gives us on a larger scale.

In His Calm,

Micah 5:4a The Calm of His Presence

“The orbit of my life is the place between my two feet.

That is my mission field.” Jill Briscoe


When Jill Briscoe made that statement during If:Gathering my attention stood straight up. My mission field – my pasture – that’s exactly what I have been focusing on this year.

Where do I need to focus more of my attention? Where do I need to plant the seed of God’s Word? What do I need to say NO to in order to say YES to the pasture God has me tending right now?

Do you have these same questions? I don’t think I am the only one who struggles with getting side tracked by the next shiny thing that comes my way. Today I want us to take a look at what it means to serve and tend the pasture of our home.

Let’s first ask the question…

What makes up the pasture of my home?

  • husband
  • kids
  • household responsibilities

For me, my husband, kids & household responsibilities make up my home. Your list may look like mine or it may look a little different. Yours may include parents, sibling, long-term houseguest, animals or any number of things. The important thing is for us to determine what is included in the pasture of our home and then determine how best to tend it.

That leads us to our next question…

How do we tend/care for the responsibilites of our home?

When looking at the specific areas of your home you can use these questions to help you focus your time and energy.

  • Husband 
    • How can I bless him?
    • Are there needs of his I need to focus on meeting?
    • Can I do something to lighten his load?
  • Kids
    • Is there something I can do for them to help them feel special?
    • How can I show them God’s love?
    • In what way can I encourage and build them up today?
  • Household duties
    • Is there something I’ve been putting off until “someday” that can be done today?
    • Make a list of weekly household duties and assign them to specific days of the week.
    • In what way can I make the house more inviting when my people come home this afternoon?

Take some time over the next few days to reflect on the pasture of your home. Ask God to show you how He wants you to care for those in your home.

I’d love to hear what makes up the pasture of your home and how you will serve in the pasture of your home. Will you share it with us in the comment section?

In His Calm,

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Happy New Year my friends!!

I hope this post finds you with your house back in order after the 2016 Holiday Season. I must admit now that our decorations are boxed and tucked safely into the attic my house looks a little barren. I’m thinking I may need to find a way to add the warm glow of twinkle lights into my everyday decor :-).

Over the last several weeks I’ve spent a lot of time praying over the direction God wants to take me in 2017. And I’ve got to say I’m really excited!! Some of you know 2016 found me stepping WAAAY out of my comfort zone to follow God down the path of submitting a book proposal at the Proverbs 31 Ministries Writers and Speakers Conference She Speaks. If you would like to see my video posts from the conference you can find them on The Calm of His Presence Facebook page by using the word “video” in the search box.

Monday was my birthday and as a way to say Happy Birthday to myself I spent a full day in God’s Word planning and praying over his direction for 2017. I am super excited to share a little of that direction with you today.

Towards the end of 2016 I worked through the study Wait and See by Wendy Pope with Proverbs 31 Ministries Online Bible Study. God began to whisper to my heart “Mary you need to ‘tend your pasture'”. Over and over again I responded with, “Ok Lord, but where is my pasture?”

I knew where I wanted my pasture to be. I wanted it to be focused on the “bigger picture” of an online ministry through writing on The Calm of His Presence. I wanted it to be focused on writing a Bible Study and Morning Prayers. While God hasn’t said no to those things, he is focusing my attention on the “smaller picture”.

Those areas are…
1. My Home – Family

2. My Church – Small group,
Women’s Ministry/Bible Study, Mentoring

3. My Online Ministry – The Calm of His Presence,
Volunteering with P31OBS

I looked up the word Pasture in wikipedia and found this…

“Pasture lands in the narrow sense are distinguished from rangelands by being managed through more intensive agricultural practices of seeding, irrigation, and the use of fertilizers while rangelands grow primarily native vegetation, managed with extensive practices like controlled burning and regulated intensity of grazing.”

Seeding…Irrigation…Fertilizers… these words stood out to me the most and then caused me to ask these questions.

Where do I need to plant the seed of God’s Word? Who needs to hear of the amazing love of God?

Are there areas God is asking me to share His Living Water? Who around me is dry and thirsty for God’s Word?

Is God asking me to help be the catalyst for someone who needs the extra nurturing and encouragement to grow in their walk with Christ? Who needs someone to come alongside them and help them step out of their comfort zone to share the love of Christ?

So my friends, this is what God is placing on my heart for 2017. I will be sharing more on the blog in the next few weeks but wanted to share with you a little behind the scenes of what God is working on in my life.

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In His Calm,


At The Cross -


My sweet friends, I have been honored that you have taken this journey of 31 Days At The Cross with me. I have prayed for each and every one of you. God is doing a mighty work in your life. Just because our time has come to a close, doesn’t mean your time in prayer and hearing God speak to you has come to a close. You have begun a journey of following Him and listening to His voice through His Word, prayer and journaling.

Please continue to spend time in God’s Word. There are many incredible ways to study His Word – topical Bible Studies, studying specific books of the Bible, reading the Bible thru in a year – whatever way works best for you. I just want you to continue spending time in God’s Word and in His Presence.

I would love to hear how God worked in your life through our time together. You can contact me through email, facebook or my blog. I have listed ways to stay in contact below.

Blessings to you my friend!

In His Calm,

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This series At The Cross is part of the Write 31 Days series. Write 31 Days is an online writing challenge hosted by Crystal Stine where bloggers pick one topic and write a post on that topic every day in October. Click here to see all the posts in the series At The Cross.

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